People need to be given room to change. And our relationships need to honor that space. You don’t stop evolving just because you’re with somebody. We need to come together with the understanding that there’s a temporariness to the moment, that shifts are bound to occur, and one day we might begin to feel differently. There doesn’t have to be so much animosity and pain around change. There doesn’t have to be so much poison and violence around growth. Paths split and re-converge all the time. If they’re important to you, you’ll know how to get home. But you’ve got to loosen up those knots in your gut. You’re allowed to be somebody different after seven years. You are permitted several breakthroughs across the span of your life. We cannot deny each other that potential–ever.
