I am really worried that I’m maybe not submissive. I’ve been having a bit of trouble with it after not submitting for about a year. I’m playing with this guy but have had trouble feeling completely submissive, I want to be, but a part of me feels like he’s not dominant “enough”. Am I a bad submissive for sort of only being able to submit when I feel like someone “deserve” it?

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sadisticgames:

A submissive chooses who they submit to. Always. 

A submissive chooses when, where, and how they will submit. Always. 

A submissive is a person, with rights, feelings, intelligence, and choices. 

If a submissive chooses to submit to someone, 

it is because they trust that person to respect them, 

it is because they trust that person to respect their limits, 

and that is why they deserve the submission in the first place. 

Anyone who makes you feel bad for not wanting to submit, 

isn’t a dom, it’s someone trying to get something they don’t deserve. 

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