Most of my kinks are unexplored still but I’ve learned that there is no hurry. Especially because I’m in a long distance relationship where we have a chance to meet up only a handful of times a year. Just sharing our life together when we can becomes more important than exploring our kinks – although we do explore them too, just not as often as I once imagined we would.
Having a kinky side is a big step for me as an abuse survivor. I feel empowered sexually and it makes me incredibly happy to know that I am healthy sexually, even if I still struggle with my mental health.
As for my submission, it relates to my kinks only vaguely. One of my kinks is definitely exhibitionism. There is something rather arousing in being seen having sex or masturbating. One of the most memorable summers my partner and I had together was camping in the archipelago and having loud, passionate sex in the tent while knowing there’s people walking past our camping spot. I also fondly remember there being many times where I seduced my partner at a time where we did not have real privacy as there was someone in the next room etc. It drives me wild knowing someone will hear, even see.
Thank you for sharing your story of bravery and recovery and I’m very happy to read you’ve progressed so far and are now in a happy and healthy relationship with your partner and yourself. I think the most common kink for everyone on SS is exhibitionism, and many of us can relate to the thrill of potentially being seen and heard by others during a moment of passion. Your photo is really beautiful and the lighting and colours are soft and soothing.
