Omg!!!!! What do you do???? You dump his ass!! Men will never change if we don’t hold them accountable for their disgusting behavior. You often find out people’s true colors through their interactions with your friends, family and coworkers. If someone is disrespectful (especially to strangers) and starts asking invasive inappropriate questions (and then has the audacity to say they don’t see what they did was wrong) believe that that is their true self. Don’t let shit like that slide! No way in hell would I let someone get away with that!
Back me on this babes! Add your thoughts!
People have actually commented “ignorance is teachable, how about educating instead of judging.” And how she should tried to communicate with him first. And he wasn’t having it. Y’all know I think communication is key and you should always try to understand why someone thinks the way they do and help them learn however when someone shows you they do not have any desire to change and In fact see no wrongdoing in something that is so blatantly fucked up you should RUN.
This is your reminder that it is not your responsibility to “fix” your partner. I repeat IT IS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO FIX YOUR PARTNER. If you try communicating with them that something that did was incredibly disrespectful and they brush it off and say they don’t see what they did was wrong you don’t need to suck it up and try to help educate them further. Doing so can put you in an extremely toxic situation. She said she tried to talk to him and his excuse was “I’ve never talked to hot lesbians before” this mindset is disgusting.
How about we stop coddling men who are blatantly disrespectful and refuse to learn or apologize . How about we stop bending over backwards to educate our partners on what is right and wrong when they have made it very clear that they do not believe their behavior was wrong in the first place. You’re dating an adult not a child and I don’t care if you love your partner dearly if they treat other people in such a dehumanizing manner you better believe that in time they will start doing the same to you. Just because you love someone DOES NOT mean you have to stay with them no matter what they do/say!
You can hold someone’s hand and tell them something is not okay 1,000 times but if you stand by them they are never going to understand that what they are doing is seriously wrong. Holding men accountable for their actions and behavior is a far better way to teach them that what they are doing will not be stood for.
Be Bold. Stand your ground. I read this once and it’s so important… Do not set yourself on fire to keep others warm.
