Grocery shopping with someone is an underrated form of intimacy

vortexanomaly:

the crumb

this is the most intense photo i’ve ever seen

THEY STOP TALKING YOU FOR A WHILE THEN HIT YOU UP RANDOMLY OUT OF NO WHERE JUST TO SEE IF THEY STILL HAVE POWER OVER YOU, AND TO SEEK VALIDATION FROM YOU BC THEY DONT LOVE THEMSELVES, AND BC THEY KNOW YOU’LL GIVE IT TO THEM. BLOCK THEM.

noseforahtwo:

I’ve never seen it put so succinctly.

This.

I want to be confident like you.

daddys-chaton-noir:

ok so first i want u to understand that confidence (4 me) isn’t a 100% or 24/7 kinda deal. it comes & goes. there are good days & bad days. & sometimes on good days, a single interaction can fuck that shit up

second, i want u to know that my confidence comes from the fact that overall, i like who i am. i make an effort to do things & treat ppl in a way that even when i feel like a piece of shit, i can look @ the way i treat ppl & say, i did a good job even if i feel the opposite. sometimes i have to write things out & see them.

third, i want u to know that i know—for a fact—that u can be just as confident as me. but it’s a tough road w/ a slippery slope & i want u to be prepared for (even more) bad days. but also be open to good days. surround urself w/ ppl who can & like & want to point out the good stuff abt u. buy something to make urself feel nice. treat urself kindly & w/ forgiveness. love urself. it’s ok to take care of urself💗