chocolate: when was your first kiss?
french vanilla: how old are you?
cotton candy: three places you want to travel to?
strawberry: a language you wish you could speak?
coffee: favorite cosmetic brands?
mint chocolate chip: indoors or outdoors?
cookie dough: do you play any instruments?
rocky road: favorite songs at the moment?
butter pecan: favorite songs for life?
cheesecake: what’s your zodiac sign?
toasted coconut: the beach or the pool?
chocolate chip: what’s your most popular post?
bubblegum: books or movies?
pistachio: manga or anime?
salted caramel: favorite movies?
birthday cake: favorite books?
moose tracks: favorites for manga?
orange sherbet: favorites for anime?
peanut butter: favorite academic subject?
black raspberry: do you have any pets?
mango: when and why did you start your blog?
mocha: ideal weather conditions?
black cherry: four words that describe you?
neapolitan: things that stress you out?
raspberry truffle: favorite kind of music?
chocolate marshmallow: favorite brands of candy?
toffee: a card game that you’re good at?
lemon custard: do you eat breakfast?
dark chocolate: turn ons?
fudge: turn offs?
peach: how do you relax?
praline: a popular book you haven’t read yet?
superman: do you like sweaters?
cherry: do you drink tea or coffee?
dulce de leche: an instrument you wish you could play?
blackberry: have you ever laughed so hard you cried?
ginger: a new feature you wish tumblr could have?
blueberry lemon: favorite blogs?
almond: favorite mean girls quote?
butterscotch: what color are your nails right now?
cinnamon: have you ever been confessed to?
blue moon: have you ever had a crush on someone?
cappuccino crunch: do you take naps?
mint: the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?
brownie batter: do you like sushi?
key lime: where do you want to be right now?
red velvet: do you wear prescription glasses?
green tea: favorite flavors of ice cream?
Abusive men pave the way for lazy men to get wives and girlfirends.
Lemme clarify, how many times have you heard your overworked female friends and relatives say “Yeah, Jerry drinks beer every evening after work while I cook dinner and clean up after everyone and does the bare minimum to help me raise the kids but he’s such a nice guy. He’s never beat me in my life. I couldn’t ask for a better guy in my life.”
Like no, Sally, your husband is a common stone among turds and you know it.
I try to explain this conceptually to people as a thing that happens not saying that this is good but it’s a thing that happens.
This is what male privilege is and how all men benefit from it.
This is why you are not exempt from statements about “all men” even if you are overall good.
You benefit from the bar constantly being lowered by systemic issues within the gender.
The expectations on you are always lower than they should because “at least you’re not X”.
That…is the best response I’ve seen to the “not all men” thing. Thank you.
I am challenging you to write a positive letter about yourself starting with, “I deserve to be spoiled because…” to remind everyone why you are frigging amazing! You can tag me or submit it to my page~
