Shoutout to all the forgettable but nice enough girlfriends/boyfriends in romantic comedies who had their marriages CANCELED and had to deal with emotional recovery after assumed months of planning because some former flame or old friend who does quirky shit like collecting their Snapple fact lids came back into their fiancé’s life for two days
I tried to explain this to a girl that CUBAN and all she had to say for herself is that “Latinx don’t have privilege and that racism is an issue for everybody” lmao
In order to move on, from anything in life- you must first understand why you felt what you did and why you no longer need to feel it. Shadow work, also know as the original wound. Learn to trace back uncomfortable feelings until you find the original source. No one can ever emotionally hurt us. The pain always steams from within. Others show us where we are wounded & what we must heal. One must take responsibility for what they feel. Being aware of our thoughts, emotions & actions is the first step in healing.