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dirtysouf:

why is being distant and withholding sensitive parts of yourself with people you dont  know well being cold or like bitch thats just being smart imo not everyone is supposed to know everything about you not being available to someone isnt a bad thing 

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Six Things To Remember

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celestialprint:

1) You are allowed to take up space. You are human. 

2) You are allowed to have a voice.

3) You are allowed to leave whenever you feel uncomfortable or unsafe

4) You deserve more than someone who doesn’t know how to respect you.

5) You are allowed to put your own needs first.

6) You are allowed to love yourself.

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awdplace:

I’m a horrible person… I’m sorry…

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indigobluerose:

melissacutler:

An article in the Huffington Post talked about the good and bad of the character Kylo Ren in Star Wars. The author wrote, “No offense to Adam Driver, but when Ren took off his mask, I was expecting someone more… evil looking (maybe monstrous, or at least more rugged), not someone with boyish, clean-shaven good looks.”

I disagree. I think Ren, with his youthful, boyish face, perfectly embodies the greatest villain of our time: the entitled white young man who abuses the inherited power and privilege he was born with.

It has always been a disturbing trope to me that the evil must be ugly or scarred – and therefore the ugly and scarred must be evil.

That myth has always been to evil’s advantage, since being injured leaves far more scars than doing injury.

*points up* *points up harder* *gestures wildly* This this thissssssss!

things ive recently gotten used to saying to men

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mounchie:

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ribochka:

-dont talk over me
-dont talk over her
-you just repeated exactly what i said
-dont touch me
-move
-youre wrong
-dont repeat me
-dont interrupt me
-youre not the first person to think of this
-dont assert yourself into this conversation
-you have no agency to speak on this
-dont speak for me

Tbh something to keep on a slip of paper in your back pocket

these are all very important things

YOU HAVE NO AGENCY TO SPEAK ON THIS

“dont speak for me”

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amberrosedaily:

MUVA shuts down anyone confused about the meaning of consent !!!

 Amber Rose on one of OWN’s newest shows It’s Not You, It’s Men, hosted by Tyrese Gibson and Rev Run . 

ugh these grown ass men and their respectability politics. A woman has a right to do whatever she feels with her body period. End of discussion. Wearing something that YOU deem provocative is not an invitation to rape or harass or shame her. Like grow the fuck up and stop thinking with your dicks. Erase the sentiment that says a woman is for a males mass consumption, end rape culture.