Being outted by someone is so uncomfortable and impossible to handle like they’ll just be like “oh so you’re gay right?” or “aren’t you trans?” and it’s just forcing us into a position where we either have to lie or out ourselves and feel ridiculously and completely unsafe and out of sorts, like I promise you there’s a reason we haven’t stated it in the company we’re in and even if you think we’re already out (or you know we are) there’s no reason to ever ask us because you don’t know to what extent or to who we’re out and that’s never something you should assume.
