It is possible to be a (femme/female) sub without fetishizing essentialist notions of male superiority. You do not have to buy in to that. This does not have to be about gender roles or inherent gendered nature or any of that – frankly – bullshit, and if you honest to god believe that it does, please unfollow me now.
Stay sharp, ladies.
Whoa. Looks like someone needs a very thorough over-the-knee spanking. By a man. In a suit. With callused hands. Who might allow her to leave on her apron if she promises to cry extra pretty for him…
Drawing gentle attention to the irony here – how do you expect anyone to respect your relationship and choices if this is how you treat theirs?
You do not have to buy into universal male dominance in order to appreciate, desire, or participate in D/S relationships. I do not honest to god give a fuck what you do in your own bedroom, but trying to represent it as an apolitical best or neutral ideal is shortsighted at best and outright destructive at worst.
Make your choices, but make them for you. Leave the other seven billion men, women, and others – in all their infinite idiosyncrasy – out of it.
Honestly you’re good for the gentle attention because WHAT. IN THE ACTUAL. FUCK.
Enjoy whatever you want in your own play, but how dare you push it on other people or criticize them for reminding us all to examine our kinks and own and shape them for ourselves.