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mvcimvges:

I’m working on this new project called “selfLove” because I tend to lose myself too easily or I stop loving myself & I get tired of crying or wishing I looked like others girls when I just want to love myself , I want to see my beauty & embrace my flaws , so I’m gonna use my camera to hopefully overcome this .

Sooooo beautiful, tho!

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herdirtylittleheart:

We we’re at a poly event and I was chatting with an acquaintance. He and his girlfriend have a girlfriend together, it’s a three-way relationship and he was telling me that since he’s had to start pleasing two women in bed his endurance has improved significantly. He detailed a moment where he made one of his girlfriends squirt while bringing the other to orgasm through clitoral stimulation, it was clear from the grin on his face he was pleased with himself. “I can fuck for hours now, I have to take a break once in a while but a few months ago there’s no way I would have lasted, I just didn’t have the stamina.” We joked that this was yet another benefit of eschewing monogamy; you have no choice but to become way more skilled in bed.

“Is that the guy you’re seeing?” he asked when he saw

Rumi
talking with my husband at the bar. I nodded. “When you guys fuck is it threesomes or do you just see him alone for dates?” he asked. I explained that it was just for threesomes, that we all really enjoyed the enthusiastic dynamic we had together and it pushed everyone’s buttons. I told him about the amazing synchronicity we have and gushed about the time we had an exhibitionist three-way that ended in both of them cumming simultaneously in my mouth.

I could see it on his face, the shift. He was disgusted. “Jesus I can’t look you in the eye now.” I was taken aback, unsure of how this was any different from what he had shared with me about his own exploits. “I feel bad for your pride here,” he laughed, as if there was something I should be ashamed of.

What part made it unpalatable for him? The fact that the threesome was for my pleasure not theirs? The fact that it was my fantasy? The fact porn has taught him that men’s ejaculate is a tool for degradation? The fact that I liked it? The fact that I said it out loud?

He had just bragged about getting two girls off at once, what made it different?

I know so many men like this, so many of my friend’s boyfriends who hound them for a threesome with another girl but would be repulsed if they suggested one with two boys. Men with sexual agendas that involve making their partners feel bad for not putting out or getting on board with some fantasy that makes their cock hard, yet their enthusiasm disappears if their partners want to explore a fantasy for their own enjoyment that isn’t directly related to their dick. Men who project their own shitty stigmas and assumptions on female desire, men who are critical of their partners turn-ons, men who don’t understand the concept of foreplay. Men who lick a pussy just to get it wet enough so they can shove their cock inside, not because they want to bring good feelings to the girl on the other side. Men who feel threatened by vibrators yet can’t stomach a conversation about their wives unmet needs. Men who remind me the madonna/whore complex is alive and well because they say things like “I could never marry a girl I went to an orgy with” while they are at an orgy. Men who only kiss you when they want to fuck you. Men who jerk off to porn but have no respect for the women who explore their sexuality on that screen. Men who think sex equals penetration. Men who think sex is over when they cum. Men whose masculinities are as fragile as their egos. Men who leave their partners unsatisfied and un-thrilled. 

I have no fucking time for these men.

After a little more prodding the answer became clear; he was close minded and misogynistic. He was into women who were sexual for his benefit. I felt sorry for his girlfriends.

(via playhardfuckharder)

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5t4rch1ld:

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im in starbucks……….sitting next to this high school couple……..and i think they’re breaking up……..i have my headphones on pretending to ignore them………but i hear it…………………………………..high school love………….

Ok so what i’ve figured out so far…….they’re not in a relationship, but the guy is acting like they’re in a commitment…………and she’s like whoah back up buddy…..and he’s like we have something we have something…..and she’s like dude you’re pressuring me, chill..……………..this guy is dumb af im gonna fight it

oh my fucking god, this fuckboy is trying guilt her into a relationship saying shit like “oh i liked you, i put myself out there for you, i talked to you on imessage til 5am for you!!!  i tried to make a relationship happen!!!” lord give me strength im gonna jump this kid

OK OKOKOKOKOKKKK I LEANED OVER TO THEM AND I TOLD THE GIRL “LISTEN HON. LISTEN. YOU DO WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT. YOU DON’T OWE THIS KID SHIT. YOURE IN HIGHSCHOOL, YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE STUCK WITH THIS GUY JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL BAD FOR HIM. DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPP Y” AND THE GUY ACTUALLY GETS MAD AND HE’S LIKE “YO WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU” AND I SAID “WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU? I DONT EVEN KNOW THIS GIRL BUT I CAN TELL SHE DOESN’T WANT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR NASTY ASS SELF. JUST BECAUSE YOU’RE NICE TO HER DOESNT MEAN SHE OWES YOU A FUCKING BLOWJOB” AND LMAO WHEN I SAID THAT I SAID IT SO LOUD EVERYONE IN THE STARBUCKS TURNED AROUND AND THE GIRL WAS LAUGHING AND I LOOKED THIS FUCKER STRAIGHT I THE EYE AND SAID “SHE DOES’T OWE YOU SHIT. GET OVER YOURSELF YOU PREBUSCENT LIL SHIT. YOU SOUND LIKE A GODDAMN RAPIST.” AND I STOOD UP AND LEFT MAINTAINING EYE CONTACT WITH HIM THE WHOLE TIME FUCK OUTTTTTTTTAAAA HERREEEE

You’re doing God’s work

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diversify your queer reads: 2014 books featuring trans people

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queerbookclub:

Earlier this week, I posted a list of books published in 2014 featuring queer people of color. Today I’m sharing books that feature the voices of trans people and/or trans protagonists.

As in the past two years,
I put together this list of publications from 2014 with the help of
resources like the Lambda Literary Foundation as well as reviewers around tumblr, goodreads and elsewhere. It has grown thanks to the efforts of small presses like biyuti publishing and Topside Press.

There’s
no way this list is exhaustive.
These are also not personal recommendations, just every title I could
find. If I was unsure about a book’s contents (that is, if I was unsure
if the trans characters were prominent, or if I thought the book might
be exploitative), I tried to give weight to who the author is (i.e.
I was more likely to include books I know were written by trans
people). This list includes books about intersex people – whether
intersex people exist under the
“umbrella” of trans or not is up to intersex individuals, but I decided
to err on the side of inclusion (if you’re not sure of the difference
between transgender and intersex people, please refer to the Intersex Society of North America’s FAQ for starters). Of course, I’ll happily add books to the list if you have
any suggestions that fit the theme – only books about trans or intersex people, and only works published in 2014.

Here’s everything I found, arranged by
genre:

Fiction

Poetry

Memoir/Bio

Nonfiction/Queer Studies

Young Adult

Children’s Lit

Comics/Graphic novels

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Sylvia Rivera calling out gays and lesbians for their trans exclusion in 1973 at the Christopher Street Liberation Day rally (x)