do you ever just watch the first episode of your favorite show again and look at how plain and simple everyone is before character development sets in and terrible shit starts happening to everyone
Month: June 2015
Today Dex and I hiked down a mountain a few miles to a waterfall. When we got there, I took my pants off and laid in the shade while Dex read to me. It was lovely.
“Good book?” I asked.
“Mmmm,” she muttered.
“A bit of escapism?”
“Shhh. I’m reading.”
“OK. Keep reading then. Pretend I’m not here. It’s kinkier that way anyway.”
I pulled her legs open and started playing with her pussy. She was getting nice and wet. She turned the page and pushed her glasses up her nose.
“Read aloud,” I said. As she started reading, her voice low, I lay on top of her and pushed my cock into her pussy. She kept reading, slowing. I slipped my hand onto her throat as I fucked her.
“Keep reading.”
I could feel her voice vibrating her throat against my palm. I could feel her wet pussy walls squeezing my cock. I dropped my forehead against the back of her head and came inside her. She stopped reading.
*printing this out for my husband*
Please someone do this to me. I love reading so this would be perfect
One of my fave erotic stories begins this way. Oof, that’s some shit I return to.
There are people who dislike you because you do not dislike yourself.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (via herdirtylittleheart)
on being an asshole’s exception
StandardSo this guy hates EVERYONE… except for you. He’s a broody, arrogant misanthrope who just can’t stand people… except for you. You alone are the special, interesting, unique person worth his time, attention, and respect. Everyone else, as far as he’s concerned, is a tedious waste of time because they just don’t get it. They don’t get him!
Sure, his general misanthropy is kind of a character flaw, but it makes you feel sort of special that someone who hates everyone actually likes you. And maybe you can work on those rough edges! He’s nice to you, and that’s what matters, right?
Don’t buy into it, Jane Eyre. This kind of person may make you the exception for awhile, but why? Sure, you’re interesting and unique and you have a lot to offer, but so do some of the people he summarily dismisses. What’s the difference between you and them?
When someone is an asshole to literally everyone but you, he’s not an interesting, brooding soul. He’s an asshole. He wants something from you, so he’s willing to bend a little; he doesn’t think it’s worthwhile to show respect or courtesy to anyone he doesn’t want something from. And all that arrogance doesn’t mean he actually has anything to be arrogant about.
Don’t settle for someone with the personality of a rotten fish. You’re not being let into some exclusive club; you’ve just met an asshole who wants something from you. Pay attention to how a potential partner treats people he doesn’t have to be nice to. It’s a pretty important clue to whether he’s fit company for human beings.
Tah DAH! The post that would have saved my ass six months ago.
Frame this doctrine
It’s amazing how, if you would have scrolled through my dashboard a year ago, the chance of me seeing a poc (especially a black person) would have been a rare occurrence. Now, my dashboard is filled with all different kinds of colors and shades, all beautiful and inspiring. Forever thankful for the efforts of black tumblr for showing me a world I had trouble seeing myself
There are a lot of posts here saying “Allow your kids to be different!” and that’s important. But the other way around, it’s important, too: Never force your kids to be different.
I used to work in a kindergarten and there was one little 4-year-old boy who walked in with a blue mohawk one day. His mom dyed her hair blue, too and she was very proud of her son and herself for being “special” and not like the others. The other kids thought it was really cool and funny, nobody laughed at him. However, as soon as his mom left he started crying. When i tried to comfort him, he told me he doesn’t like it when people touch his hair and now everybody wants to touch his hair. When asked if he told his mom, he just looked up at me and said "She didn’t listen.“
So, long story short: Don’t raise your child “different”. Raise them individually. Listen. Care. Find out who your child is and who they want to be. And if they want blue hair, that’s cool. But if not, please respect it.
