haha well lemme start by saying i don’t typically brag about my sexual prowess. i think it sounds kinda douchey and you never know what different people like so whatever i tell you here might seem like bullshit to others, but since you’ve asked i’ll give you some info that typically yields positive results.
first things first. you gotta really want to do it. nothing worse than half assed or “obligatory” oral. just you willingly going down there without being asked or guided is a good spark to turn her on so take your time and enjoy yourself!
Secondly, everybody is different. some people like some things and some people hate them. some like real slow rhythmic stuff, some like hard fast stuff. some love peneration more, but some love clitoral stimulation (the lil bean under the hood at the top of the pussy). you have to try all sorts of things with your partner and read her reactions. (LADIES this is why it’s important you don’t fake shit with your partners. if you’re huffin and puffing when you’re not really feelin nothing or somethings hurting, you’re making us think we’re on to something good and we’ll keep doing it. just be real with them!) but yea, read your partners body and definitely ask if your not sure! trust and open communication is key!
next is the pre oral game! Unless you’re somewhere where time is an issue, or you’re just in that aggressive “I NEED YOU NOW” kind of sex, take the time to get her body and mind ready to play! kiss her neck. kiss her chest. kiss her stomach. kiss her thighs. try different stuff! kiss in definitive direct lines so she can guess where you’re going next, or try kissing in random places so she doesn’t know whats coming. the more you turn her on the more area’s become sensitive to touch and get her mentally in the game!
ANTICIPATION is really fun with oral sex. as you get closer to her pussy she’ll get more and more worked up. kiss and lick insider her thighs. kiss your way down to the knee and then work your way back. kiss, lick and light blowing over the areas slowly back towards her pussy. inch your way til you’re so close that your next kiss MUST FINALLY be on her wet pussy…. until you just breath on it as you move right over it to do her other thigh. even as you make your way back, make her wait a lil for it. no need to rush it. then finally, when you’re ready, and she can’t take it anymore, you can introduce yourself!
so take it slow. no one wants you just jamming your tongue in all willy nilly and making an unnecessary mess. (not to be confused with the fun, necessary mess. we’ll get there later :)) lay your whole tongue on her lips. run it from bottom to top. top to bottom. real slow. try different things and see what she likes. odds are she’ll be most sensitive where her clit is but it doesn’t mean ignore the rest. whatever you try, keep it slow for a while, and when you find something that works, repeat it! rhythm is important. if you’re doing something good in some area and then move somewhere else or change what you’re doing, you might lose all the progress you were making before!
PRO TIP! your tongue is not a dick! don’t try to use it as one. if you wanna put your tongue actually INTO her vagina? go for it but really only as a thorough walk about. correct me if i’m wrong ladies, but i’ve yet to find anyone who likes someone trying to fuck them with their face/tongue. most of good oral stuff is above that area, or just use your tongue to stay shallow, pressing and flicking your tongue in and around the edges of her vagina. feel free to use your fingers down there while your tongue’s taking care of business up top (tho i like to save this for the end to push them over the edge).
PRO TIP! you (presumably) have two hands along with that tongue of yours! use em! don’t forget about her titties while your tongue is partying between her thighs. speaking of which, play with and grab her thighs. grab em from underneath and push them knees back to her ears as you bury your face in her lap. you can totally spank her when eating her in this position too. and again, use them fingers to hit that gspot while your tongue’s busy!
PRO TIP! use your head! literally! don’t just wiggle your tongue around, move your head! your tongue has a lot of surface area that all feels good, not just the tip. open your mouth all the way, stick your tongue out (not straight, more down like you’re trying to touch it to your chin) this way most of your tongue is exposed, then start at the bottom of her pussy and move your whole head up (not the tongue). then as you’re coming to the end you can lift your tongue to finish it. this allows more of your tongue to be in contact with her pussy and clit at the top. use all of the tongue, not just the tip! switching between just using your tongue, or just moving your head can keep you from your tongue getting tired.
PRO TIP! be careful with the clit! yes it’s often the key to the climax but she can be VERY finicky! if you’re too aggressive with it, it’ll become sore and that’s no good for anyone. so read your partners reaction and try not to go too fast and crazy in that area until you think she’s close to finishing. this is why its important to go slow, be rhythmic. be sure to lick all of and around her pussy. you can create a little suction around the clit (emphasis on the “little”) to isolate the clit and really just get fuckin crazy on it.
PRO TIP! get messy! if you’re doing your job right, she’s gonna be very wet. if you’re doing your job right, so are you! not just from her either, make sure you got spit coming into your mouth to keep your tongue wet and lubricated. honestly, when i’m done, i typically got the mess everywhere from my beard to inside my nose. shit gets hectic. just give into the mess!
PRO TIP! cunnilingus doesn’t always have to be her on her back! next time you’re lying on your back and she’s on your lap straddling you, pull her down to you, kiss her, then put your hands between her legs (at your side) and slide your body down so your face is between her legs and let her sit on your face. it’s fuckin awesome! you can even jerk off while your drowning in the pussy! plus if she spins around you two can 69 which is fun for everyone!
i think i’ve given enough to work with here. again, remember to pay attention to and communicate with your partner and remember everyone likes different stuff. so if something doesn’t seem to be working, try something else. try a different speed. try a different angle. just take your time and enjoy yourself. honestly i think going down on a girl is WAY easier than going down on a guy (i’m guessing as i have no experience doing the latter) but if you’re going slow, you really don’t get tired and you can do that shit for hours so even if you can’t get her to cum that way, she’ll fucking love every second of you trying!
