cartooncousin:

dylan, may 2015

GO BESTFRIEND THATS MY BESTFRIEND

the reason i like staying up late so much is because between the hours of 1am-5am, the world is quiet and no one expects anything from me. i could stare at my wall for 4 hours and there would be no consequences. it’s so silent and calm. i love it

Im white and really want to dread my hair but i worry about stealing black culture. Whats your opinion on it?

olivethecreative:

Don’t do it, you’d look a mess and you’d be a using your privilege of being white and not being seen like a criminal with your “dreads”. Also the process for white people to get dreads is a lot more tedious than the process for black people. And it’s gross.

theruleset:

If you think of BDSM as a scale of 1-10 (which is bad you shouldn’t), most blogs post stuff in the 3-6 range.

The problem with also liking the 7-9 range is that the people posting good stuff like that also post 10s, and you just have to quietly suck it up through the gore and puke and other cringe ordeals.

Don’t send them anons complaining about it, that’s gauche.

I’ve been thinking about the first part of this post all morning. As theruleset mentions, BDSM as a spectrum isn’t accurate or helpful, really. But it is interesting. Particularly since that spectrum would be different for each person.

What’s at my 3? What’s on your 6? Is bruising a 2 or a 5 or something else entirely for you? Do we just know it when we see it.

I feel like I’ve been fruitlessly tumbling for my 7-9 all morning. Urgh.