Who else has been watching A Different World since it got put up on Netflix?
God bless all the people who made this scene happen. This is the only time I’ve seen a show actually challenge rape culture. Fucking thank you.
I’ve been watching nothing but this on Netflix
This has been my go-to Netflix viewing lately, and I can’t wait to get out of the early episodes and into the real real.
When you can’t fall asleep because your minds too busy trying to pre-plan every single thing you’re going to say to someone the next time you see them, and in what order.
There’s probably a word for exactly this in some other language that sounds beautiful and flows off your tongue.
No one is required to forgive you if you fuck up. No one is required to accept your apology. You make an apology to accept your wrongdoing, that you understand it and to announce a responsibility to improve. Not to solicit forgiveness. If forgiveness is given, great, but no one is obligated to forgive. Ever.
When your barber finds out you were seeing someone else
Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.
