The fact that oppressed people can’t make a single angry statement about their oppressors without being asked to clarify they didn’t mean literally everyone in that group just in case they hurt someone’s feelings blows my fucking mind.
Sorry if I hurt your feelings by pointing out that you’re part of a group that benefits from the dehumanisation of others.
I guess I was just too busy being actively dehumanised to care.
Month: January 2015
when you’re trying to make out with your partner but he keeps telling you historical facts
Standardmy lips pressed up against his and he’s talkin bout some “did you know 1 out of every 200 people are descended from genghis khan?”
God it’s great to have friends.
Let your #1 show me how it’s done.
“Kiss Mine”
Hollow 2.5 http://h-o-l-l-o-w-2-5.tumblr.com/ ”Photographer”
Lina the 26th http://linathe26th.tumblr.com/ ”Model”
in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result
Let them miss you. Sometimes when you’re always available, they take you for granted because they think you’ll always stay.