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Dear kate, thank you for the beautiful and inspiring blog. I am in my first ongoing D/s relationship, and I love my Dom. I also have a history of sexual and emotional abuse which constantly triggers self-hatred, doubt, and resentment toward him. Sometimes it feels like I need him to constantly reassure me. I know he does not have the ability or responsibility to “fix” me, and I want to be strong and whole for him. Do you have suggestions on ways I can find peace and self-assurance in serving?
This is my quarterly announcement: If you see me doing/saying something problematic (ie: being racist, homophobic, ableist, cissexist, fatphobic, etc), PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me. I mean that from my heart. I try my best but I’m not always aware of everything I do and it’s connotations. It doesn’t mean I will always agree with you or instantly understand but I promise to listen. And it will mean the world that you cared enough to talk to me.
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