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universityandme:

for 2015:

  • learn to unapologetically say no.
  • read, read, read, read. read
  • write more. write about everything.
  • pick up your camera again
  • tell more stories 
  • keep ur skin moisturized
  • appreciate every square centimeter of ur body
  • don’t give a shit about what others think of u
  • be patient. be thankful. 
  • life is not a competition. stop treating it like one.
  • have more solo dance parties in ur room
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katblaque:

verbosetherapy:

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dedurp:

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sithemperor:

Whenever someone asks me why I don’t have a boyfriend, I’m just going to show them this. Racism and classism (and misogyny and transphobia and internalized homophobia) is so rampant among men in my community.

This is like 99 percent of the white men i’ve ever dated and i’ve dated a lot of white men.

White women are the same way. I can’t count how many times I’ve been told that I “don’t sound black” or that I’m “like, the whitest black person I(they) know.” I’m sick and fucking tired of this shit. I’m light-skinned, but I won’t be your compromise, your half-black go-between. I am not your rebellious phase to piss off your parents.

Sorry, but this is a sore spot for me.

“I usually don’t date black girls, but you’re hot”

That’s because you’re black, but you assimilate well into white society, that way they can say they have a black friend without having actually like black people who don’t act strictly in the way they want. 

Because I’m black, I’ll never really ‘assimilate” to white society. I’ll always be a nigga to many white people. i’m just one of the good niggas.

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saintscoot:

2015 goals:

  • take more selfies
  • dress up more
  • be more optimistic
  • do more art,  improve, improve, improve
  • take no shit
  • love myself more
  • love myself more
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alwaysbewoke:

And still doesn’t.

7 Things Your Colorblind Racist Friend Might Say to You and How to Respond | Atlanta Black Star

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7 Things Your Colorblind Racist Friend Might Say to You and How to Respond | Atlanta Black Star

Sexualities/Genders (And Other Terms One Should Know)

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Heterosexual: Male-identifying individual sexually attracted to a female-identifying individual, and vice-versa.
Homosexual: Someone attracted to someone of the same gender as themselves.
Bisexual: Sexually attracted to two or more genders.
Polysexual: Sexually attracted to many genders, but not all.
Pansexual: Sexually attracted to all genders. (this and bisexual, and sometimes polysexual, are often considered to be the same thing and different people may simply identify as any one of them due to their own personal reasons)
Demisexual: Sexually attracted to people only after forming a bond with them first.
Asexual: Having no /sexual attraction/ to others; having no desire to have sex.

Heteroromantic: Male-identifying individual romantically attracted to female-identifying individuals, and vice-versa.
Homoromantic: Attracted romantically to the same gender.
Biromantic: Attracted romantically to two or more genders
Polyromantic: Attracted to many genders (but not all)
Panromantic: Attracted romantically to all genders
Demiromantic: Romantically attracted to people only after forming a bond with them first.
Aromantic: Having no /romantic attraction/ to others; having no desire to be in a romantic relationship.
Polyamorous: Someone who is attracted to, and is comfortable with being in a relationship with more than one person at a time.

Transexual/Transgender (Term depending on generation and location): An individual who identifies as a gender other than the one they were assigned at birth to be. Often shortened to trans
Cisgender: Someone who identifies as the gender that they were assigned as at birth. (ex. matches their birth certificate) Often shortened to cis
Intersex: Someone who has ambiguous genitalia that doesn’t fit into our strict dichotomy of uterus or testes. Often forced into surgery to correct their genitals at a very young age, causing psychological and physical harm later in life
Nonbinary: Outside of the gender binary of male and female. (Can be used as an umbrella term or as its own identity)
Genderqueer: Outside of the gender binary. (**This is not an umbrella term like the post said before I edited it! Do not use this as an umbrella term for nonbinary individuals, simply use ‘nonbinary’. Queer is considered a slur and not everyone likes to be associated with the word)
Agender: Someone who feels gender neutral, or someone who experiences a ‘lack’ of gender.
Bigender: Someone who identifies as two separate genders.
Trigender: Someone who identifies as three separate genders.
Genderfluid: A gender that changes, or is ‘fluid’.
Demigirl: Identifying partially as a woman, but not wholly.
Demiboy/guy: Identifying partially as a man, but not wholly.
Dmab: Designated Male at Birth.
Dfab: Designated Female at Birth.
Amab/Afab: Same as dmab/dmab, except with ‘assigned’ instead of ‘designated’.
Camab/Cafab: Same as previous, except prefixed by ‘coercively’, to highlight the lack of choice.

Reblog to inform! And if there’s any I missed or anything that should be clarified, please message me! Always looking to expand the proper vocab. 🙂
**I edited this post because it used some archaic and incorrect terms/definitions, and needed more terms added to it. -Vivian Mareepe

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