Month: November 2014

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Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says “Come on, one drink!” You say “no thanks.” Later, he brings you a soda. “I know you said you didn’t want a drink, but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty.” For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole. He’s just being nice, right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. If you drink the drink, you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your “no.” If you say “Really, I appreciate it, but no thanks” and put the drink down and walk away from it, you’re the one who looks rude in that moment. But the fact is, you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated.

The art of “no,” continued: Saying no when you’ve already said yes. « CaptainAwkward.com

I love this post SO MUCH. 

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sadisticgames:

I want to deny you for months. 

I want to tease you right to the edge every day. 

I want to bind you under My desk, 

using you for My pleasure. 

I want to show off your desperation, 

making you beg for the slightest pleasure. 

I want you to plead and debase yourself, 

anything to earn the privilege of orgasm, 

and when that privilege is finally granted, 

I will take My pleasure in slowly turning your dream, 

into a nightmare of pain and pleasure. 

When I finally grant you permission to cum, 

it won’t stop, not until you are screaming. 

I want to hear the desperation in your voice, 

infinitely more pained that your pleading to cum. 

I want to watch you struggle against the bondage, 

trying to escape My probing fingers, toys, and tongue. 

I will drink in the suffering and you will please Me, 

in every way and with every part of you…

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SILIP (DAUGHTERS OF EVE) (1985) directed by Elwood Perez

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Sometimes people think they know you. They know a few facts about you, and they piece you together in a way that makes sense to them. And if you don’t know yourself very well, you might even believe that they are right. But the truth is, that isn’t you. That isn’t you at all.

Leila Sales This Song Will Save Your Life  (via stellablu)
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tashabilities:

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babybutta:

whitegirlsaintshit:

shialabae:

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imsoshive:

She on beat like a muhhfucka

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shoutout to her for being so positive while going through chemo

FUCK ME UP MARY BETH

GET IT BITCH!!!! YESSS!!!! FUCK IT UP I LOVE IT!!!!!

The hood fucks with her heavily.

SHE BETTER GO TF AWFFF

Mary Beth had the most rhythm I’ve ever seen for a middle aged white woman,

But this is still what Jukebox Jones calls ‘impactful Blackness’ or ‘Blackness for powerful effect’. 

White folks created segregation and they maintain it to this day, so generally speaking, they don’t want much to do with us.

They won’t hire us, don’t wanna live near us, don’t want their kids at school with ours, and don’t wanna date us. Black boys across the country are getting shot and ‘committing suicide’ for messin with white women right now today in 2014.

But whenever white folks need some courage, some extra oomph to help them through chemo or surgery, help them win gold at the Olympics, or just to ask that cutie to the prom, 

They call on Black culture, specifically our dance and our music. 

But Black folks so damn EASY.

We ooooh and aaaah at anybody white who’s watched us for 10 minutes and figured out how to do some shit we do, or simply appreciate something we do.

UGH, Mary Beth.

Good luck on the chemo, tho, gorl.

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