when people say “she has good hair” or “he has nice eyes”
makes sure you’re not complimenting their hair or eyes because it is a signifier of whiteness.
light eyes and loosely coiled hair is dope and all (no shame on y’all wit that), but I’m tired of basics getting compliments because they’re a step closer to whiteness. people with 4c hair and dark eyes don’t get complimented on our shit, because it’s a Black signifier.
