Month: February 2014
I”m been working with rigger Kanso on the bondage project, mostly female but here is a few shots from the last shoot with Jack Hammer.
Rigger: Kanso
Model: JackHammer
No one.
No one.
EVER has a right to touch you if you don’t want to be touched.
Not your husband. Not your fiance. Not your boyfriend. Not your partner. Not your friends. Not even your own family.
You are a person and your body is your own. And it’s a privilege if you allow someone to touch it.
A god damn privilege that can be snatched up and you don’t owe anyone a reason but that it’s your body and only YOUR body.
Do you try to fulfill your girls fantasies?
StandardIf I didn’t, I would disqualify Myself from being her loving partner and Dominant.
Being a partner and a Dominant isn’t just about getting the things you want. If you believe that is the case, sorry, but your doing it wrong.
Even the most passive submissive has fantasies and desires. Even if they till you time and time again that all they want is to please you, let them know that being able to help them experience their fantasies would indeed please you.
Keep in mind too that even if the fantasies aren’t something you are comfortable with right this instant, they may be something you can work towards together and dabble in at a later date.
Protocol vs. Personal
LinkThe thing about girl is that she’s submissive, but she doesn’t relate to the whole concept of D/s as a “scene” or a “community.” It’s just the way we relate to one another.
So much of what I read on tumblr is this super high-protocol dramatic stuff—and it’s sexy, but it’s also not us. I have so…
