Month: July 2013
Dustin Hoffman on playing a woman in Tootsie (1982)
“If I was going to be a woman, I would want to be as beautiful as possible. And they said to me, ‘Uh, that’s as beautiful as we can get you.’ And I went home and started crying to my wife, and I said, ‘I have to make this picture.’ And she said, ‘Why?’ And I said, ‘Because I think I’m an interesting woman when I look at myself on screen, and I know that if I met myself at a party, I would never talk to that character because she doesn’t fulfill, physically, the demands that we’re brought up to think that women have to have in order for us to ask them out.’ She says, ‘What are you saying?’ and I said, ‘There’s too many interesting women I have not had the experience to know in this life because I have been brainwashed.’ It was not what it felt like to be a woman. It was what it felt like to be someone that people didn’t respect, for the wrong reasons. I know it’s a comedy. But comedy’s a serious business.”
This is a man in tears when he came up against the experience of being a woman in a misogynist society, and realizing what it means for them, and for him, too.
This is one of my favorite things! Splayed out at the insistence of his cock.
I remember when we were out in public and you whispered to me in that sultry little voice of yours ‘if I wanted you to give me 25 orgasms right now, what would you do?’, I didn’t answer, I just looked at you, and I know that even now, you haven’t forgotten that wicked, devilish smile and intense look I gave you.
It didn’t take long for me to get the chance to show you just what I would do, the chance to get you alone here, to tape you up in just the way that makes you tingle inside…
How did it feel to have that first orgasm denied? To think you were going to feel the first of 25 orgasms in an instant hit you hard, only to feel the vibrator pull away. However it felt, I could certainly hear the anguish in every moan for me to give it to you, pleading with me to stop teasing you once I had done it a further 10 times. After denying you of 25 orgasms in succession, it was clear that never did you expect to be put in this kind of state, in such desperate need for the orgasms you had whispered for. I was consistent, not only did I deny every single orgasm right at the final moment, I also made you beg for it after every single one.
Now I am going to use this vibrator on its highest setting and not move it away from you. I am going to make you cum 25 times in a row, just like how you wanted. The thing is, I’m not going to give you any rest, this vibrator isn’t going to move away from your pussy for a second.
Now… this blindfold can stay on, just so you can feel these powerful vibrations even more concentrated on that sweet little point of your body. Every single time you tell me that it is too intense, that you want me to stop, I am going to remind you that you begged me for every single one…
Yes, I can hear you… but you begged me to give them to you, remember?. Every. Single. Orgasm.
We fell into a pretty good rhythm and she calmed down. Snow knows that being pinned makes it easier to take and often these days it’s something of an unspoken request that I’m usually happy to indulge. What used to be a tool of forcible control has become a gesture of comfort.
But I have seen the best of you and the worst of you, and I choose both.
Sarah Kay and Phil Kaye, “An Origin Story” (via s-29)
(via beggingforpermission)
Now.
Every time daddy
Guys, in case you didn’t notice, I am really into belts today.
I love her hair.
I have been ruminating on this hairplan for a while, but with dreadlocks. Not sure I can pull it off like she does, but damn, she can pull off a belt as pants, so. You know. Style queen over there.
A Dominant’s hand on the throat of a submissive is like the snap of a hypnotist’s fingers; she’s instantly under.
Definitely true for me.