femsubdenial:

Oooo! Fun question!

I think my favorite time was last February when I was presenting on tease & denial in front of about 60 people, many of which I had met before. Within the first ten minutes, I started off a simple demo with a play partner who was naked, blindfolded, and loosely tied on a massage table next to me. Every time I tapped her foot or shoulder, she was to masturbate to the edge and then stop. I then proceeded to talk about tease and denial for about an hour, tapping her again and again throughout.

I finished by tightening her ropes to hold her helpless and had a silent a poll to decide if/how she gets to cum: None, ruined, nice, or post orgasm torture? Complying with the poll, I used a wand vibe and a dildo on her until she came screaming and squirming in front of everyone, and then I kept going for a while. >:-}

I was so fucking happy from how well the presentation went. I enjoyed looking at the audience and seeing some very sexy grins. It was a perfect night.

There have been several other scenes (e.g. scenes with abitofamasochist and ablackslut) that were extremely hot. Also, several months later I had repeated this same presentation at a weekend BDSM conference and by most metrics it was better than the first time. There was more laughter, I articulated my thoughts a little better, I think even the demo went better. But this one… I’d had an explicit goal of presenting on tease and denial and I reached it that night, and it was my first time presenting to the kink community, and I was doing it in front of (and therefore with) my local community so as I looked I saw many familiar faces and an energy in the room. I was saying “this is really cool and fun and exciting!” about something I’m outright geeky about, to my friends, and they were digging it!!! That alone was awesome but add that it was an erotic experience with my favorite kink, too? Mind blowing.

This is one of my favorite stories, tbh. Wow. Great experience!