The waiting is always the worst of it.
Hi, girlfriendbdsmgallery. I’m always flattered when somebody likes a photo of me enough to reblog it, but I find it super troubling that you’ve reblogged my image and tagged it “exgf.”
I really hope, and I am giving you the benefit of the doubt here, that you’ve tagged it this because my back and ass remind you of an ex-girlfriend (though you have also tagged it things like girlfriend, slave, etc), and not because you are trying to fetishize this image as some sort of ex-girlfriend revenge porn photo.
The photos I put on my tumblr are both taken and posted consensually. They are pieces of my relationships with other people, with my body, with my sexuality.
Ex-girlfriend revenge porn is not something I want my images associated with. It’s not something I want to exist. It’s not something I want sexualized. It is a brutal form of shaming an individual for being sexual and an outright betrayal of trust.
Everyone is allowed to have fantasies, though I ask that you not only refrain from imposing something so problematic and harmful on a picture of me taken consensually by the man I love, but also consider that it is perhaps irresponsible to portray the violation and shaming of a former partner as something for sexual consumption.
Once again, I hope it was just that I remind you of an ex-girlfriend.