So, tumblr has a HORRIBLE askbox function. Absolutely horrible. A lot of messages intended for me simply don’t get delivered to me.
Ask again!
Month: September 2014
My office-mate looks just like Gayle from Bob’s Burgers and so my office hours are now 500% better.
“Whatever we can’t hold, we hang on a hook that will hold it.” – Leslie Jamison, The Empathy Exams.
I think this was the only time I ever identified with Carrie.
It was a good night, tumblr.
The fact that most guys’ first response to a woman wanting equality is “SO CAN I HIT U NOW” is sort of terrifying
Like that’s the first thing you’re concerned about? I just want equal pay and you want to punch me in the face? Cool cooland they hit us already so
Would you mind posting a picture of your feet?
StandardHey I love your blog :) I have a question though, what are some easy ways to make a girl cum? (Without sex, dildos) I’ve master baited so much and never came and I’ve been fingered and such and I’ve only ever came once. Help?
StandardUnfortunately, girls aren’t an equation where you substitute in the right values, balance the sides and bam – orgasm. It can vary from girl to girl, it can vary from encounter to encounter.
I’m not super orgasmic myself, but I really enjoy sexual encounters and don’t feel the need to cum every time. But, what I have learned about myself I have learned from experience.
So, relax. Actually, relax. Read some stuff that turns you on or watch something that makes you squirm. See what feels good, see what doesn’t. There’s no easy way to make someone cum, really. And I’ve found that the times it was hardest for me to cum were the times I was just telling myself over and over, “cum already” and giving myself unnecessary pressure.
Just enjoy the experience. Don’t worry about cumming. If it happens, it happens.
Hi Ivy, hope you’re doing alright. My partner and I are also long-distance and I take major inspiration and encouragement from your intelligent, mature way of talking about/dealing with/figuring out the tough issues that come with these kinds of relationships. I guess the point of this message is…you’re awesome? I dunno.
StandardThank you so much.
To be honest, this has been a really rough few months for Sir and I. We really needed this visit. It wasn’t perfect, but seeing each other alone made a lot of things feel better.
It’s hard because he and I are both handling a lot right now in our lives and we can’t be present for each other. We honestly almost stopped being poly for a good minute there.
A lot is still really uncertain, but we’re putting a lot of work into this, and hopefully that will show results for both of us. So, thank you for your support. It’s really wonderful.