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It’s annoying how you tag posts or say shit like ‘I need to be fucked right now’, ‘I need my pussy ate’, ‘I need to suck a dick rn’ but then when someone says they want to eat you out in ask, you say ew or no thanks. Logic?

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laced-up-and-spanked:

Aww it must be so hard for you to accept that no-one cares about your pathetic attempts at dirty talk. Please, tell me more.

Look kiddo, I don’t actually have to reply back in a nice way when people continuously talk to me like that when I’ve said I have no interest in it, repeatedly, FOR YEARS. If someone is disrespectful (and yes, I do find sexual messages disrespectful and creepy) then NEWS FLASH: I’m not under any obligation to respond nicely. I don’t have to say “sorry” when I’m not, heck I think it’s pretty polite that I usually respond with “no, thank you.” If that is annoying you then that’s cool but I’m not going to feel bad about how I respond.

When I say stuff like that on my posts, 7/10 times it’s because I want someone in particular to do that stuff to me and they know who they are so why people are acting like I aimed it towards them absolutely baffles me.

The other 3/10 times I write stuff just because. Just because I want to and it’s my blog and I should be able to do that without annoying anyone…hmmm. That’s interesting, let’s look at that for a moment, shall we?

I *should* be able to write what I want on my blog without fuckboys getting annoyed about shit that doesn’t concern them but alas, here we are. Now honey, I’m sure there are other bloggers on here who would be happy with all the anonymous OH BABY I WANT TO EAT YOU UNTIL YOU PASS OUT messages from random strangers however I am not one of them. I have no interest in random dick. Telling me what you want to do to me sexually is boring. I find it uninteresting because I don’t know that dick so I don’t want it anywhere near me. It’s why I hate dick pics from random tumblr users, like why would you even think that would turn me on when I don’t even know anything about you? It’s just another form of arrogance tbh. OH YOU’RE HORNY???? WELL THEN, YOU *MUST* WANT TO SEE *MY* DICK. LOOK WOMAN, LOOK AT HOW GLORIOUS IT IS. WHAT DO YOU MEAN THIS ISN’T TURNING YOU ON BITCH??!!! I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU WERE HORNY!!!

But of course, I’m sure you probably think women should keep their thoughts to themselves if they didn’t want sexual advances like this. Heaven forbid you just not do it.

Now run along, honey. I wouldn’t want to annoy you anymore 🙂

This. So much this, what a perfect answer.

sorry, this isn’t a very sexy message, but I’m a bisexual female and while I wouldn’t mind being in a relationship with a man, but the idea of having sex with one repulses me a bit and I’m just very confused. Have you heard of anyone with similar feelings? Again, sorry if this downstairs make sense but I’d just like answers :/

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lovingdenial:

femsubdenial:

Hi there! 🙂

I’ve seen that, usually in women who’ve had sexual abuse in their past. I’ve also seen the other way around, where a heterosexual woman labeled herself “bisexual above the waist” because she liked kissing, and boobs, but just wasn’t into vaginas. For that matter, I know a married lesbian who thinks men’s bodies are sexier than women’s bodies. Sexuality is realy strange, sometimes.

I have no idea what you’re going through so I don’t have much advice other than to say that until you know more about yourself or are fairly satisfied that there aren’t any more answers, being confused is a healthy response. It’s much better, in my opinion, than having no questions about it.

Since you’re asking me, I’ll assume you have an interest in BDSM, too, so I also want to tell you that in the BDSM communinty there are some people who want sex with their kink, and others who just want their kink and sex is very exclusive. Also, sex is very rare at your average BDSM play party. (.. at least near me. That said, some parties are better than others.) This is one reason why one friend of mine doesn’t like to play at parties; she wants sex if she’s going to play, and doesn’t want to fuck in front of people. For groups of people into spanking, I’ve heard that in some groups you’re not even allowed to take off your underwear unless you’re behind closed doors. It’s that way at the parties of the spanking group near me.

Please come back in a few days and see if anyone has reblogged with comments. Perhaps someone else will reblog with their own thoughts.

I was confused for years. I thought I was bisexual. I can fall in love with a guy or a woman. I am even more physically attracted to men. But I never couldn’t stand the idea of having “normal” sex with them. I thought it would change with age. It hasn’t. There’s no abuse behind that, it’s just how I am. I declared myself a lesbian; there I’m comfortable with all aspects of a relationship.

Later, thanks to the internet, I realised I am and always was interested in kinky side of men! I definitely like having male friends, sometimes I need a hug from a guy. Then I skip the whole romantic and vanilla part. And then I find myself wanting to dominate a man, or, if I really trust him, being submissive to him. Again thanks to the internet I found out there are men whom I’m compatible with, and got to know some guys, and spent good times with them.

In my opinion any feeling is OK. There are so many variations. Sometimes even labels don’t fit. Am I biromantic, when I’m able to fall in love also with a man but I’m not interested in dating? Am I bisexual, when I’m attracted to men, too, but I want only “weird” sex with them? Who cares 🙂

There were a couple of responses to this ask, all awesome, but this one is my favorite because of that last paragraph! Labels should be used as shorthand, not constraints.

I don’t know why I didn’t see this post before, but thank god for it. I didn’t realize there were many people out there that felt this same way, and this makes me feel a little less weird and alone… Although just to add to this, I also consider myself demisexual, and that expands out to who I feel comfortable getting kinky with…

I’m attracted to both guys and girls, and sometimes I lean way more towards girls, and occasionally it’s guys I really get the hots for, but I’ve only even been really into one person, to the point of being willing to be totally submissive with him. Other than that, I’ve just never been truly attracted to someone or had a desire to do anything sexual with a person.

People don’t understand it and it’s very frustrating. I even have a hard time understanding it, because I feel it would be a lot easier if my sexuality would just be “normal”. But then I remember that there really isn’t a good standard for “normal” anyways, and it might make finding someone to be with a little more difficult, but I’m still great and honestly I don’t *need* to be with someone to be happy.