It does suck, because they are fundamentally misunderstanding what a submissive is. They think a submissive is someone who is so desperate for cock that they will bow down and worship anything with a “Y” chromosome.
The truth that they will never understand is this: most submissives are selective as hell. See, they look for strength. Not just average strength, but the kind of strength that is so above and beyond most people that they, the submissive, can put their lives in the hands of that strength and feel confident. The kind of strength that is capable of being responsible for not only their own life, but the life of their submissive as well.
I love hearing belovedsangi’s stories of people who tried to dom her in the years that we were apart. She just laughed in their faces when they tried to take control. She giggled when they tried to give her a Dom stare. Sangi is stronger than anyone else I have ever met, without exception. The idea that she is some weak-willed cock-starving bimbo simply because she is submissive is laughable.
That’s just it. Submissives are crazy strong. The amount of strength and willpower required to fully trust your well-being to someone else is more than most people can fathom. So of course, someone with that kind of strength is going to be selective.
And submissives, especially those of you who are new to this world, I’ll tell you this: if someone expects you to be a slut for everyone, they aren’t a Dom. They are just an asshat. If someone expects you to bow down to them when you first meet them because they said so, they are no more a dominant than I am a fairy princess. Don’t ever waste a second worrying about the opinions of these people. You will know and real Dom when you meet them, because they won’t have to tell you that they are a dominant.
