I was reading something the other day regarding men who ask women for nudes online.
Someone commented that it was disgusting and that women don’t do that.
Well, this of course is false and I think it bit damaging towards women, but that’s not the thought I’m focused on at the moment.
What I started thinking about is the countless people who have messaged me asking for my attention, a game, or a story.
Generally I find these rather flattering, but there are those who simply say, “play with me.”, no introduction, no conversation, and I find those to be annoying.
I get what they want, they want to get off and get back to whatever it was they were doing before they became horny.
They want someone to give them something, something new, something they haven’t heard or seen before that will push them over the edge.
It’s the same thing that guy asking for the nudes is looking for. Wanking material.
About the only difference is the risk involved, depending on the picture.
If they run off once they’ve gotten what they want out of Me, I may be out some time and effort.
If someone runs off with a picture of you, it could be potentially damaging to your future.
So to be clear, I’m not advocating that you start handing out nudes to people, obviously. Be safe, be smart, and if someone is pressuring you, walk away.
What I am saying though, is that if you find yourself going to someone strictly to get material to get yourself off and move on?
you’re that guy asking for nudes.
Rather than end it there, let Me add one final thought.
This isn’t inherently a bad thing. Some people may ‘want’ to be your wanking material.
