This is wonderful!
Even better is the “making of” video that explains it. In the description:
The theory was: A slap, robbed of its violating context, is more intimate than a kiss.
My theory, as it turned out, was right, which was fun, and gratifying. But intellectual gratification is, to me, secondary to the visceral feeling that came from hitting, being hit, and better yet, watching everybody hit each other. I saw the strangest mutations of intimacy, and trust, in that empty void.
My main kink is, of course, highly sexual, so it was really alien how quite a bit of of the bdsm scenes I see at play parties aren’t overtly sexual… but they are all fun. (… except for fear play… but wow, that’s really intimate stuff)
The main reason I’m reblogging this is because it’s a great way to explain that to hit and be hit can be kind of fun, and no, maybe you’re not all that weird for wanting to try it, maybe you’re just ahead of the curve. 😉
There is something absolutely wonderful about this :3 I love getting smacked in the face sometimes, as long as it’s in the friendly context